爸爸們，請時刻記住你是一位父親

育兒 07-10

爸爸們，請時刻記住你是一位父親

要時刻記住：你是一位父親

當您已經在辦公室工作60小時後，不要忘記您最重要的角色：您是一位父親。沒有人在生命即將結束時說：「我真應該花更多的時間在辦公室里工作。」

如果您哥們兒想在工作後跟您喝一杯，請認真問一下自己，這是最好的時間嗎？50年之後，您也許已經不記得他們的名字。但希望您的孩子不會忘記您的名字。

當您在電視旁看比賽，這時候您的孩子來問您問題，請記住，儘管您是一個體育迷，您更是一位父親。

當您在為修房子趕工期，這時候您的小兒子想來「幫忙」，請不要忘記您是他的父親，他學到東西來自您的言傳身教。

當您的女兒要您帶她去商場，請帶她去。要把她當作公主一樣對待…… 但是不要什麼都給她買。記住，您是一位父親，您要告訴她一個人做事的原則。

如果您的孩子需要一個擁抱、一個微笑、或一個低頭注視，請記住，您是一位父親，他/她從您這裡學到東西。

如果您不和孩子們住在一起，但至少要為了他們而好好生活。畢竟，您是他們的父親，他們需要您。

永遠不要忘記參與到孩子們成長的大事件中。額外工作一小時真的比孩子的第一個演奏會重要嗎？

永遠不要忘記在必要的時候對孩子們加以訓誡。要嚴肅但不要大喊大叫甚至大打出手。

永遠不要忘記詢問孩子們在學校表現如何、與朋友相處如何、與兄弟姐妹相處如何，等等。要和孩子們溝通交流，但不要滔滔不絕。他們愛您，也喜歡和您聊天。

永遠不要忘記尊重他們的媽媽，並成為媽媽的好搭檔，尤其是為了您的孩子。

永遠不要忘記您和您的孩子們都不是完美的。請有耐心、充滿愛並和藹可親。他們長大後也會如此。

永遠不要忘記他們不是您。讓他們成為自己希望成為的人，但給他們一位父親應給的教導和指引。

英文原文

ALWAYS REMEMBER: YOU ARE THE FATHER

When you』ve been in the office for 60 hours this week, don』t forget you』re a father first and foremost. No one ever says at the end of their lives: 「I wish I spent more time at the office」

When your buddies want you to stop by after work for a drink, ask yourself if that is really the best use of your time. In 50 years you probably won』t even remember their names. But hopefully your children will never forget yours.

When you are watching the game on TV and your child asks you a question, remember, you are a father before you are a fan.

When you are trying to catch up with maintaining your house, and your young son wants to 『help』, don』t forget you are his father and he needs to learn from you.

When your daughter asks you to take her to the mall, take her. Treat her like a princess…but don』t buy her everything. Remember, you』re her father who teaches her how a real man is supposed to behave.

When your child needs a hug, or a smile, or a stare-down, remember, you』re their father…s/he learns from you.

When you don』t live with your children, at least live for your children. After all, you are their father and they need you.

Never forget to be around for the milestones. Is an extra hour at work really more important than your child』s first band concert?」

Never forget to discipline your kids when they need it. Be firm but do not yell or shake!

Never forget to ask them how they are doing, at school, with friends, with their siblings, etc. Talk with them--not at them. They love you and love talking with you.

Never forget to be respectful to their mother and to be a partner to her, especially for your kids』 needs.

Never forget that neither you, nor your children are perfect. Be patient, loving and kind. They will grow up to be like that too.

Never forget that they are not you. Let them be the person they are, but guide them as their father.

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文章來源：家庭第一（ID Familyfirstchina）

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