喬妹都要嫁人啦 你的靈魂伴侶在哪裡？

就在昨日，主演《太陽的後裔》男女主角宋仲基和宋慧喬發布婚訊，兩人預計在10月31日完婚。經紀公司方面稱，結婚不僅是兩人的事情，也是兩個家庭的結合，因此兩人在各方面慎之又慎，到現在才正式發布消息。經紀公司還表示，希望大家祝福兩人的美好未來，兩人將各自向粉絲髮布婚訊。

《太陽的後裔》CP成真，網友心目中的男神女神在一起啦！這可讓不少粉絲非常開心，畢竟小時候可是看著女神宋慧喬的《藍色生死戀》以及《浪漫滿屋》長大的。而且小時候經常操心女神會嫁給誰呢？操心這個問題簡直比操心自己嫁給誰還上心！不過如今看到女神和男神在一起，普大也算是放心了。

女神宋慧喬兜兜轉轉36歲才找到自己的幸福，實屬不易，想必這個男人也一定會是心中的靈魂伴侶。然而，究竟什麼樣的人才稱得上是靈魂伴侶呢？單身狗們今天可要睜大眼睛，拿出小本本做筆記，符合下面這18個特徵的才算是靈魂伴侶哦！

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1. You just know it.

相信彼此就是命中注定

Something deep inside tells you this is the perfect one for you. It』s as if there is a spiritual force pushing you to let go of everything you previously expected and to give of yourself completely.

內心深處的聲音會告訴你眼前這個人就是你心中的完美伴侶。就好像有一股精神力量逼迫你放下以前的種種期待，將自己的真心完全交給對方。

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2. You have crossed paths before.

雖然以前從未相遇，但總有一天會相逢

Soulmates have met each other and a previous time. You may not have connected, but you were in the same place, at the same time. Before my husband and I met, we lived across the street from each other and worked across the street from each other. Yet we never met until the time was right.

靈魂伴侶們總是以各種方式擦肩而過，直到彼此相遇。你們之前可能完全不熟悉，但實際上兩個人每天都在同一個地方擦肩而過。比如，在我和丈夫見面之前，兩個人就住在街對面，每天兩個人都要穿過街道去工作。然而，直到那個對的時間你們才會相遇，為彼此停下腳步。

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3. Your souls meet at the right time.

靈魂伴侶總是會在對的時間相遇

Each person has to be ready to receive the soul connection. Even though my husband and I were in close proximity of each other for many years, we did not meet until the time was right for both of us. You have to be prepared to meet your soulmate. It could be that you have to go through a relationship that doesn』t work out, or that you』re not ready to ditch your 「perfect person checklist,」 but when it comes to soulmates- timing is everything.

每個人都必須準備好迎接自己的靈魂伴侶的到來。雖然我和丈夫在一起已經有很多年了，但是在我們相遇之前彼此也各自經歷了很多東西。你必須準備好迎接你的靈魂伴侶。在這之前可能你必須經歷幾段不成功的戀情，或者你還死守著你的「完美人選」清單，但那個對的人一旦來到身邊，就必須迅速抓住，時間就是一切。

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4. Your quiet space is a peaceful place.

安靜的待在一起就是最美好的時光

Being quiet together is comforting like a fluffy down blanket on a cold winter night. Whether you are reading in the same room, or driving in the car, there』s a quiet peace between you.

對於靈魂伴侶們來說，安靜的待在一起就是最舒適美好的時光，這種感覺就像是寒冷的冬夜裡圍在你身上的一條毛毯一般，溫暖而感動。無論你們是在同一個房間里讀書，還是開車，靈魂伴侶們總是能夠一起安享平靜的時光。

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5. You can hear the other person』s silent thoughts.

隨時都能心有靈犀

With soulmates, there is such depth to your relationship that you can feel and hear what your partner is thinking, even if it is not verbally expressed.

遇見了靈魂伴侶，你們的感情會達到一種前所未有的默契和深度，彷彿隨時都可以保持心有靈犀。有時即便對方沒有任何口頭表達，但你仍然能夠感受到他的所思所想。

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6. You feel each other』s pain.

總是能夠感知對方的快樂與悲傷

You stand in each other』s shoes. You know each other so well, that the second he walks in the door, you can tell how his day was. You feel each other』s feelings: sadness, worry, and stress. And you share each other』s happiness and joy.

靈魂伴侶們總是會站在對方的立場上。你們很了解對方，他進門的時候，你便可以感知到對方今天過得怎麼樣。你們會感知對方的情緒：悲傷、焦慮和壓力。你們也總是能夠彼此分享生活中的幸福與歡樂。

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7. You know each other』s flaws and the benefits in them.

包容理解對方的缺點

Yes, it』s true. Our flaws have benefits. Every trait has a positive as well as a negative side. It』s the task of each person to always look for the good, even when things don』t look so good. There is usually a benefit to each flaw. Stubborn people are good decision makers. Overly organized people are great at paying bills on time.

這是真的，對方的缺點有時也是另一種優點。因為每個個性其都有積極的一面，也有消極的一面。你們的任務就是永遠看到對方好的一面，即使有時事情看起來不那麼樂觀。每個缺點通常都有優勢。比如，固執的人常常善於做決定，條理清晰的人總是能及時支付賬單。

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8. You share the same life goals.

生活理想和目標保持一致

You』re both on the same page with values, ethics, and goals. You may have a different way of reaching those goals, but you both want the same end result.

你們的價值觀、道德觀和目標都是一致的。你們可能有不同的方法達到這些目標，但重要的是最終到達的地方都是你們所期望的。

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9. You』re not afraid of having a conversation.

不懼怕交流

Conversations can be challenging. Expressing concerns or attempting to make decisions is uncomfortable. Soulmates know that if they join together, they will be able to work it out.

對於有些人來說，和對方保持保持穩定而持續的交流是困難的。直接表達憂慮或試圖做出決定的交流和談話都會 令對方不舒服。靈魂伴侶知道只要他們坐下來聊一聊，就沒有解決不了的事情。

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10. You are not threatened by the need for alone time.

你們依然能夠彼此保有獨處的時間與空間

Whether it』s tennis three times a week or girls』 night out, you respect each other』s need for independence, knowing that when you get together, your time alone is special.

不管是網球比賽還是女生之夜的活動，你們都會尊重彼此的獨處需求。知道雖然兩個人在一起很甜蜜，但是你們依然需要時間在一個人的獨處中尋找樂趣。

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11. You don』t experience jealousy.

從來不會嫉妒

Pretty girls at the office or handsome personal trainers aren』t a threat to your relationship.You are secure knowing that you are the only one.

辦公室漂亮的女生或者帥氣的私人教練對你們的關係並沒有什麼威脅。你們會對彼此非常有安全感，因為你知道只有彼此才是對方眼中的唯一。

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12. You respect each other』s differences and opinions.

尊重彼此的意見和分歧

You know you have different opinions. Often soulmates are polar opposite. At times this is challenging. These are the times when you are being forced to let the other person complete you. You still have your own opinion, but instead of agreeing to disagree, there is a deep level of respect for each other. You listen and honor the differences.

你知道你有不同的觀點。通常靈魂伴侶會是截然相反的。有時這很有挑戰性。而這恰恰是你完善自己的時刻。你仍然可以保留自己的觀點，但是必須去尊重對方可能和你完全不同的觀點。你們一定能夠傾聽並尊重彼此的不同意見。

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13. You don』t scream, curse, or threaten each other with divorce.

不會用尖叫、咒罵、離婚來威脅對方

Of course you feel the anger. People unintentionally hurt each other. But soulmates aren』t nasty, hurtful, or punitive.

當然生活中你們也會有彼此生氣和憤怒的時刻，而且人們總是會在無意中傷害對方。但靈魂伴侶不會用一些傷害對方的方法來發泄自己的憤怒。

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14. You give in because you want to make your partner happy.

為了讓對方快樂，隨時願意讓步

Giving can often occur in unhealthy, co-dependent, or abusive relationships. But soulmates give to each other for the sole purpose of making each other happy.

付出和讓步經常發生在不健康、相互依賴或虐待的關係中。但是靈魂伴侶為了讓彼此開心總是會自己付出和讓步。

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15. You know how to apologize.

懂得及時道歉

It』s not easy to say 「I』m sorry」 or admit that you did something that hurt the person you love. Soulmates realize that their actions or words cause harm. Even if they feel justified in their point of view, if their partner was hurt by it, they can easily apologize for the harm they have caused.

說「對不起」是不容易的，尤其是當你你做了什麼傷害了你愛的人的時候。靈魂伴侶會意識到他們的行為或言語會給對方造成傷害。即使他們覺得自己的觀點是合理的，如果他們的伴侶受到傷害，他們也會很輕易地為自己造成的傷害去道歉。

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16. You would marry each other again.

就算曾經分離也沒關係，只要未來永遠在一起

You know this is the one and only one for you. Even through the tough times, you would choose your partner again. You feel a sense of pride in your partner.

你們會知道彼此就是生命中的唯一。即使經歷過痛苦和艱難的短暫分離，你們也會再次選擇回到對方身邊。因為只有擁有彼此才讓你感到如此驕傲和自豪。

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17. You complete each other.

是你完整了我的存在

Yes, I』m sorry to say it but, your partner fills in your blanks. No person is perfect. We all have our strengths and weaknesses. Soulmates complete each other. It』s the yin and yang of perfect harmony. One person may be the extrovert, while one is the introvert. One may be social, while the other a homebody. Soulmates are often opposite that are attracted to a person who has their missing pieces.

是的，我很抱歉這麼說，但的確是你的另一半填補了你的空白。沒有人是完美的，我們都有自己的優點和缺點。靈魂伴侶出現在你的生命中，就是要完整和改善你的存在。就像是是完美和諧的陰陽融合。一個人可能是外向的，而另一個便是內向的。一個人可能樂於在外奔波，而另一個則喜歡踏實顧家。靈魂伴侶往往是相反的，他們總是會被有著自己缺失的部分的人吸引。

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18.Being in each other』s arms washes away all your stress, worries, and anxiety.

你的一個擁抱就能趕走我所有的不開心

There is no place you』d rather be at the end of the day but in each other』s arms. If you had a rough day filled with disagreements, a fight with your boss or if you missed the train, whatever happened is gone the second you cuddle up together. There is a warmth in your heart, an inner peace you can feel. No words need to be spoken. All that exists is the silent, blissful union of two souls together. Two souls that were meant to be together eternally.

沒有什麼能夠比一天結束時躺在對方的懷抱里更溫暖幸福的事情。如果你今天過得不開心，可能和老闆吵架，或者錯過了火車，但無論發生什麼事情，都別忘了有一個人在等著給你一個溫暖的擁抱。你們的內心總有一種溫暖，總是能夠感受到彼此內心的寧靜。甚至不需要訴說，兩個人就能夠感受到對方的心意。這樣的兩顆靈魂註定要永遠在一起。

愛你，就是你的每件小事都看在眼裡！

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