為啥總有老外覺得，亞洲妹子喜歡西方醜男？還越丑越好？

天下 07-08

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話說，前兩天和一個外國小伙聊天，對方突然來了這麼一句：

「你們中國妹子，是不是很喜歡又老又丑的白人男啊？」

主頁君當時還以為聽錯了，還讓人家重複了一遍。

結果人也不含糊，重複時直接把「old, ugly white men」這類形容給用上了，讓人想曲解都難。

當時我就懵了：為啥你這樣想啊？

對方很淡定：很多人都是這樣說的啊。

我：…………

好吧……雖說蘿蔔白菜各有所愛，「審美」這玩意兒素來因人而異。但是「又老又丑」什麼的，真的不可能是咱們中國妹子的菜啊！！（又不是瞎）

懷著一顆懵圈的心，主頁君試著去國外各網站論壇上扒拉了一下……

然後，新世界的大門打開了……

一篇博文的血雨腥風

早在2013年時，一枚名叫巴里(Barry)的澳洲漢子發了這樣一篇博文：

——「為什麼中國的漂亮妹子喜歡西方的醜男？」

得，看這標題就是要掐。

在文章里，作者還刻意配了張畫風清奇的「西方醜男圖」：

……可以的，算是非常丑了。

挑幾段文章內容感受下——

I』m mighty pleased to report that it seems China is the only country in the world where lovely native ladies bafflingly often are attracted to hideous Western men.

容我開心地說個事兒：長得丑的西方漢子們不要怕，就算全世界的妹子都不喜歡你們，至少還有可愛的中國妹子好你們這口！

Just look at me for example. On a scale of 1 to 10, with 1 being mighty ugly and 10 being mighty handsome, I』d rate a 3 at best. Some would legitimately argue I』m closer to a 2. No matter, I think you get the drift. My long and harrowing life experience to date is that always I』ve been shunned (sigh) by lovely Western ladies.

我就是個鮮活案例啊！如果顏值可以從1到10打分的話，我屬於頂多兩三分的那種。嗯，你懂的。反正西方妹子從來不會給我什麼好臉色看，生活一片悲慘。

I』m pleased to report though that life altering surprises sometimes magically occur. Through a XXX website (此處馬賽克), I』ve been able to interact with some of the most drop dead gorgeous ladies imaginable. Wonder of wonders - why has it taken me so long to come here!

但是，在上了一個以中國妹子為主的跨國交友網站之後，我的生活發生了翻天覆地的變化！我和一些顏值超高、氣質超好的女神勾搭上了！奇蹟啊奇蹟，為什麼我現在才想到去撩中國妹子！

嘖嘖嘖，看把這人給激動的……

一個「顏值僅兩三分」「西方妹子從不給好臉色」的白人男，居然在中國姑娘面前就如魚得水、和女神互撩都不在話下？？

這篇博文下面的留言有很多，大家也紛紛給出了自己的解釋。有人嘲笑「中國女孩是個白人男就喜歡」、有人猜測「中國人的審美和西方不一樣」、有人吐槽「她們只是看中移民拿綠卡的可能，管你長成什麼樣」、還有人感慨「或許中國女性更重視內在美」……

眾說紛紜，各種YY，彷彿中國姑娘是一群動機不純且審美有問題的可怕生物似的。

GIF/562K

而且，不僅是中國，在「你們居然喜歡醜男」這個問題上，整個亞洲的妹子們都被黑得挺慘的……

雅虎有個「Yahoo Answers」，跟百度知道差不多，就是有人提問、別人來回答的套路。

然後呢，有人在雅虎上問了這麼個問題——

發現這個趨勢沒：亞洲姑娘喜歡和丑的白人漢子談戀愛！

樓主鬱悶不已地絮叨著——

I ve been doing a sort of social experiment and want to know what you guys think of my findings.

I noticed in a lot of mixed couples, the asian girl is very attractive, and the white guy is average, or kind of ugly. I had wondered why this is.

What could be the glue that keeps the couples together? Obviously for the guy, getting an attractive, smart, well-dressed, compassionate, and doting girlfriend is a win on all fronts, especially if he has "yellow fever". But what about the girl? What qualities does she see in an average/ugly white guy without money, or anything special?

是啊……和顏值高的漢子相比，那些醜男既沒有腰纏萬貫，也不是什麼「有趣的靈魂」（就算有也是極少的個例），亞洲妹子們是眼睛有問題嗎？偏偏看上他們？！

底下網友的答案也是千奇百怪……

@Someonenamedkatie: Maybe asian women dont know what is what.

也許亞洲妹子分不清美醜吧

@varnerjeremy: I would think the reason they go for an "average" looking white male is because they generally treat women better. It may also be that they care about more important traits than good looks like we are taught in movies and general society. They have higher IQ s!!!

她們更喜歡長相普通的白人漢子，或許因為這些顏值一般的漢子會對她們更好？或許也像電影里的「標準答案」一樣，她們對外表無所謂，更注重內在美咯~~這智商妥妥兒地！

@Yen: I agree with this cause I ve seen one of the most prettiest Asian girls date the most unattractive guy almost like he was the younger version of Donald trump .

樓主說的沒錯！我就見過一個超級漂亮的亞洲妹子，居然和一個巨丑的人在一起了……那人長的嘖嘖嘖，跟個年輕了幾歲的特朗普似的！

@ Priscilla: It could very much be because they could be taught culturally not to be shallow and that the white man is the ticket to a happy prosperous life. With the one chick taking care of her man, it could be because she fell in love with him but maybe had thought he could be her sugar daddy in the beginning. I ve been to a couple Asian countries; especially in Thailand this is a huge trend.

可能在亞洲的文化里，妹子們都知道做人不能太膚淺，不能光看顏值吧？有些白人男雖然長得丑，但釣上他們就可以從此走向人生巔峰了呀。那些所謂「又老又丑」的，即使最後真的能愛上，最早也有可能是當「糖老爸」和乾爹來傍的吧？我去過一些亞洲國家，在泰國這種傍老醜男的情況尤為明顯~

樓上這位說話真是諷刺到家了，連「糖老爸」都出來了……

（註：「糖老爸」「糖寶貝」指國外年輕女生被中年男性「包養」、以此掙學費和零花錢的現象。通常存在於美國等一些高校之中。）