你是你自己現實的創造者
又到了我們《21個百萬富翁致富秘訣》的連載時間,今天要分享成為百萬富翁的是第二個秘訣:
構想一個清晰的發展方向——學會制訂一個可以改變你生活的有效而明確的目標。
你是你自己現實的創造者。首先,明確你想要什麼,你想要得到什麼樣的人生,說出來,寫下來或畫出來,要把自己的注意力全集中在自己所期望發生的事情上。只要你開始對你已經擁有的東西有不一樣的感覺,你就會開始吸引更多更好的東西。你要改變現狀,就要先改變你的想法。吸引力定律永遠會順從你的思想。
什麼是吸引力定律呢?簡單來說,就是在你的生命里,你會吸引到你所注意,關心的東西,也就是說,我們的思想,情感,語言,行動結合在一起,就能轉化為能量吸引與其本質相同的積極能量。吸引力告訴我們:首先要樹立一個積極的目標,並不斷的在內心中提醒自己。努力思考如何去實現它。只要這樣,我們就會將各種有利於目標實現的資源吸引過來,從而實現我們的目標。
構想一個清晰的發展方向
Secret number two, develop a clear sense of direction. This is where you take your dreams out of the air and you crystallize them into clear, specific written goals. Perhaps the greatest discovery in human history is that, "You become what you think about most of the time." The two factors that determine what happens to you in life, more than anything else, are what you think about and how you think about it.
決定你一生命運的最重要的因素
第二個秘訣:構想一個清晰的發展方向。這是你從空氣中找到你的夢想並將其清晰具體化的途徑。也許人類歷史上最偉大的發現是:你大部分時間在想什麼,你就會變成什麼!決定你一生命運的兩個最重要的因素是:大部分時間,你在想什麼?你怎麼想它的?
可視化你的目標
Successful people think about their goals most of the time. As a result, they are continually moving toward their goals and their goals are moving toward them. Whatever you think about most of the time grows and increases in your life. If you are thinking and talking and visualizing your goals, you tend to accomplish far, far more than the average person who is usually thinking and talking about theirworries and problems most of the time.
成功人士大部分時間都會想著他們的目標,因此,他們不斷的向著他們的目標前進,他們的目標也不斷的向著他們靠近。不管大部分時間想的是什麼,都會在你的人生中積累增長。如果你一直想著你的目標,一直談論你的目標,一直可視化你的目標,你將取得遠遠高於普通人的成就,因為普通人大部分時間所想所討論的經常都是關於他們的憂慮與問題(憂慮與問題通常不會減少,而是因為老是想著它們而增加)。
97%的成年人從未設定他們的目標
Here is an exercise for you. Take a sheet of paper and write the word "Goals" at the top with today s date. Then, make a list of 10 goals that you would like to achieve over the next 12 months. Write your goals in the present tense, as though a year has passed and you have already achieved them. Begin each goal with the word "I" to make it personal to you. By making out a list of 10 goals for yourself for thenext year, you will have moved yourself into the top 3% of adults in our society. The sad fact is that 97% of adults have never made a list of goals in their entire lives. Once you have your list of 10 goals, go back over the list and ask thiskey question: "Which one goal on this list, if I were to achieve it, would have the greatest positive impact on my life?"
下面有一個作業要留給你。請拿一張白紙,並在白紙的頂部寫上「目標」和今天的日期。然後寫下10個你希望在接下來的12個月實現的目標,請用現在時態寫你的目標,就好像1年已經過去,你已經實現了它們。每一個目標都以「我」開頭,使得它是你自己私人的事情。通過寫出下一年度的10個目標,你就已經讓自己加入了我們社會所有成年人的前3%,因為一個可悲的事實是:97%的成年人在他們的一生中都從來沒有設定並寫下他們的目標。
每天都做一些事情朝你的目標前進
Whatever your answer to that question, circle that goal and make that your number one, most important goal for the future. Set a deadline, make a plan, take action on your plan and do something every day that moves you toward your goal.
From now on, think and talk about that goal all the time. Think and talk about how you can achieve that goal. Think and talk about all the different things that you can do to make that goal a reality. This exercise will stimulate your creativity, increase your energy and unlock your potential.
當你寫好你的10個目標的時候,回到你列的這個單子上,問問自己下面這個關鍵問題:「在這個目標清單中,如果我能夠實現,哪一個目標會對我的人生產生最大的正面積極影響?」不管你的回答是什麼,把這個目標圈出來,並且把它作為你將來首先的,最重要的目標。設置一個期限,制定一個計劃,並且按照計劃採取行動,每天都做一些事情朝你的目標前進。
從現在開始,請用所有時間來思考與討論那個目標。思考並與別人討論怎麼實現那個目標。思考與討論為了實現那個目標的所有你能做的不同事情。這個練習將激發你的創造力,增加你的能量,釋放你的潛能。
你的人生目標由你決定,你的天賦就是你給自己的使命,你的人生是有你自己創造,永遠不會有誰來審判你!
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