鮮花對於生活的意義The meaning of flowers for life
昨天我超級疲憊,然而在鮮花前拍照,還是覺得夢想值得我繼續堅持
你為夢想受苦,鮮花會為你打氣~
我對於鮮花的熱愛,就像對於夢想的追逐,執著而熱情不減。
有錢的時候買花的頻率很高,喜歡買從未見過的花,比如澳洲臘梅之類。沒錢的時候買花的頻率低,且愛買花期長一些的。比如小雛菊。
很多人會說,花又不能吃,而且買花的錢都夠買好幾斤肉了。為什麼會有人喜歡買鮮花?
於我而言,鮮花是好心情的來源、美好生活的縮影。
什麼是美好的生活?是生活在魚龍混雜的弄堂里,還有心思把家裡打掃的一塵不染,熏上香薰。再清貧的生活,也能在晨起的陽光下,透過鮮花看到雜亂生活里歲月的靜美。
昨晚我做了一個夢,夢見滿屋子的花,多到頂到天花板。花的顏色甚至拼成了彩虹。很久很久,甚至是很多年沒有做過這樣美好的夢了。昨天我收到的花,插滿了家裡所有的花瓶。我甚至哭了。因為有的時候會覺得自己真的變老了,而被人像童話里的小女孩那樣對待真的會感動的一塌糊塗。
莫泊桑的小說《羊脂球》,裡面有個男人娶了一個追求精緻生活的女人,他在她活著的時候毫不理解,並認為她愛慕虛榮,虛有其表,很是可笑。而當她因為生孩子而去世後,他卻把自己過成了她想要追求的樣子。自己的孩子衣衫襤褸、骯張不堪他完全不在乎,而自己的鬍鬚卻一定是打蠟做造型的。
我前段時間看了一本藝術類的書籍,說有位沒落貴族在經濟條件大不如前的情況下,依舊保持著許多貴族習氣,導致生活倍顯艱難。我開玩笑和室友說,喜歡鮮花這個愛好,對於我來說是不是也算是不合適應的貴族習氣?室友說,沒錯。
在我很小的時候,我會到田野里采大把大把的各種野花,插在玻璃瓶里,放置在家裡的大衣柜上。鄰居串門笑我,漫山遍野都是的野花,你放在家裡幹什麼?我說好看。我會在小瓶子里種植苔蘚類的植物,因為我發現它們很美。
《走出非洲》裡面也有一個場景,講的是女主千辛萬苦帶到非洲的芍藥花(沒記錯的話)球莖終於開出一朵粉色的花,她喜不自禁剪下來立刻插進漂亮的古董花瓶,並請了很多社會名流來欣賞。然而,那居然是那些球莖開出的唯一一朵花。那之後,她懊惱不已,早知那是唯一一朵,為什麼要剪下來而不讓它結果,有了種子之後,她就是把芍藥花引進非洲的第一人啊。然而,把鮮花插進花瓶去欣賞的衝動和誘惑,讓她沒有機會去想風險。
鮮花開放時間短暫,不管是在花瓶還是在土地。有人覺得它短暫不真實,然而它存在於你的生活,帶給你美好的無形的感受,確是真實真切的。用多少錢可以買到好心情?一枝花就可以。用多少話語告訴我你在乎我,一枝花就可以。
在情感生活里,我一直生活地很任性。家人曾經問我,你要找的白馬王子究竟長什麼樣?我沒說,因為他們不會理解。鮮花有多重要?只有在乎的人才會知道且懂得。
有人說,見我一次就給我買一次花。我說那樣壓力會不會很大?對方說學會種花,就可以不那麼費錢了。其實,我是那種聽到這類話就會很感動的人。畢竟,覺得我喜歡花很美好並願意給我買的人我很珍惜。花我一般都是自己買,有人送我當然也很樂意收下。
我喜歡送女生鮮花,她們無一例外都很開心。也曾經給男生送過鮮花,他們有人驚訝認為鮮花是送給女人的,也有人欣然接受並誇鮮花很棒。於我而言,鮮花就是生活里空氣一樣的存在。自然而然,是生活里不可缺少的組成部分。
感謝所有知道我喜歡鮮花並認為我收到花一定會開心且真的買給我的朋友們,謝謝你們的厚愛。
My love for flowers is like the pursuit of dreams, persistent and undiminished.
When the rich flowers frequency is very high, buy love has never seen flowers, such as Australia, lamei. When there is no money to buy a low frequency, and love to buy some of the long flowering period. Like small daisies.
A lot of people will say, flowers can"t eat, and buy enough money to buy a few pounds of meat. Why do someone like to buy flowers?
In my case, flowers are the source of good mood and the epitome of good life.
What is a good life? It is living in a mixture of fish and dragon, and the mind to clean the house in the dust, fumigating into the fragrance. Then the lives of the poor, but also in the morning sun, through the flowers to see messy life years of quiet beauty.
Last night I had a dream, dream of a room full of flowers, many top to the ceiling. The color of the flower even spelled a rainbow. It"s been a long time, and even for many years I haven"t had such a wonderful dream. The flowers I received yesterday were filled with all the vases in the house. I even cried. Because some of the time will feel that you really get old, and be treated like a little girl in a fairy tale.
Maupassant"s novel "Boule de Suif", there is a man marries a woman in the pursuit of exquisite life, he did not understand when she was alive, and that her vanity is very funny, look impressive but lack real worth. And when she died because of the child, he passed herself into the way she wanted to pursue. His children are shabby, shabby and unbearable, and his beard must be made of wax.
I read an art book some time ago, and said that a declining aristocracy still maintained many aristocratic habits under the condition that the economic conditions were not as good as before, which led to life difficult times. I joke with my roommate, I like the hobby of flowers, is it an incompatible aristocratic habit for me? The roommate said, that"s right.
When I was very young, I would go to the fields to pick up a lot of wild flowers, plugged in a glass bottle, and put them on the cabinets at home. Neighbors chuanmen laugh at me, all the flowers all over the mountains and plains, you put what to do at home? I say good-looking. I"ll grow bryophytes in small bottles, because I find them beautiful.
"Out of Africa" and there was a scene, the main female hardships to Africa peonies (not mistaken). Finally opened a pink flower, she immediately cut xibuzijin inserted into the beautiful antique vase, and invited many celebrities to enjoy. It was, however, the only flower that was made from the bulbs. After that, she had known chagrin, that is the only one, why not let it cut down the results, after the seeds, she is the first person to introduce African peony flowers. However, the impulsiveness and temptation of inserting the flowers into the vase let her have no chance to think about the risk.
Flowers are open for a short time, whether it is in the vase or in the land. Some people think that it is short and untrue, but it exists in your life and brings you beautiful and invisible feelings. It is really true and true. How much can you buy a good mood? A flower can be. Tell me how much words you care about me, a flower can be.
I have been very willful in my life in the emotional life. The family once asked me, what did the prince of white horse look like to you? I didn"t say it, because they wouldn"t understand. How important is the flower? A person who cares only knows and knows.
Some people say, see me once and buy me a flower once. Do I say that the pressure will be very big? The other side said that learning to grow flowers could be less expensive. In fact, I am the kind of person who will be very touched to hear this kind of words. After all, I feel like I love people who are beautiful and willing to buy me. I usually buy flowers by myself, and someone sends me, of course, to accept it, of course.
I like to send flowers to girls, and they are all happy. They have also sent flowers to boys. They are surprised to think that flowers are for women, and others are happy to accept and exaggerate the flowers. In my case, flowers are the same existence of air in life. Naturally, it is an indispensable part of life.
Thanks to all the friends who know that I like flowers and that I have received flowers and will be happy and really bought me. Thank you for your love.
《Lily的畫和生活》第206篇推文因喜歡而堅持~
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