女人一定要清楚自己想要的是什麼

所以，女人對自我需要的反覆無常，才會導致一而再的離婚、結婚、離婚、結婚，她們根本就不知道自己真正想要的是什麼，一不順心就試圖通過離婚換個人過，或婚外情來逃避問題，只因在她們的心裡會有這樣一種錯誤的念想。總會有這麼一個人是能夠百分百令自己滿意，並且是能夠跟自己完美搭配的。所以，她們就不停的找啊找，等啊等。

愛上一個人不難，難在你不確定是不是真的愛他。一種愛是純粹的欣賞對方的優點，也只看到優點；另一種是在欣賞優點的同時，也接納了對方的缺點，看到了一個更全面的人。前者的愛容易半途而廢，後者更能經起時間的推敲。愛情不是婚姻，愛情能讓兩個人對未來充滿激情，而婚姻卻是讓兩個人更好的面對現實。

Therefore, the fickleness of women』s needs for self leads to divorce, marriage, divorce, and marriage. They don』t even know what they really want, and if they don』t, they try to divorce themselves. Extramarital affair escapes problems because they have such a wrong thought in their hearts. There will always be such a person who is able to satisfy himself 100% and is able to match himself perfectly. Therefore, they kept looking for, waiting, waiting, etc.

It"s not hard to fall in love with someone. It"s hard to be sure if you really love him. A kind of love is a pure appreciation of the other side"s advantages, but also only see the advantages; the other is to appreciate the advantages while also accepting each other"s shortcomings, saw a more comprehensive person. The former"s love can easily be abandoned, and the latter can be more time-honored. Love is not marriage, love can make two people full of passion for the future, and marriage is to let two people face the reality better.

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