話語是一個美麗的陷阱

我認為我朋友的人生體會是一種真理或者接近於一種真理。那一天，我回到我居住的飯店，坐在窗前，望著德國幽靜的綠樹成蔭的居民區想了很久很久。我想：這個世界上最普遍的矛盾和麻煩難道不都是話語引起和造成的嗎？一個人的話語只是在出口的一瞬間具有真實性。可這一瞬間眨眼就過去了。重複者和傳播者使用的是自己的理解和語氣，接受者則又有各自的理解背景。任何一種最細微的因素都能夠改變話語的順暢流通，使之產生多重意義。於是，我們的生活中便充滿了絮叨，充滿了解釋，充滿了流言和蜚語，充滿了隔閡和攻擊，也充滿了謾罵和扯皮。想想多麼無聊啊!

其實，在一個人的生活中，與你無緣的人，你與他說話再多也是廢話。但凡與你有緣的人，你的存在就能驚醒他所有的感覺。你們不用說話。你們即便說話也是一堆泡沫，在陽光下，五顏六色，看起來很，其實它僅僅是你們情感交流的衍生物，過去了也就消失了。發生了就永遠不會消失的是擁抱，而諾言註定會隨風而逝。沒錯，事情就是這樣的。

I think my friend"s experience of life is a kind of truth or close to a truth. On that day, I went back to the hotel where I live, sitting at the window and looking at the quiet, tree-lined residential area of Germany for a long time. I think: Isn"t the most common contradiction and trouble in the world caused and caused by discourse? One"s words are only authentic at the moment of export. But this blink of an eye has passed. Repeaters and communicators use their own understanding and tone, while recipients have their own understanding background. Any of the most subtle elements can change the smooth flow of discourse and make it more meaningful. As a result, our lives are full of ridiculous, full of explanations, full of rumors and slang, full of estrangement and attacks, but also full of jealousy and wrangling. Think how boring!

In fact, in a person"s life, someone who is out of touch with you, you talk to him more is nonsense. But for those who have relationships with you, your presence can awaken all his feelings. You don"t have to talk. Even if you speak a bunch of bubbles, in the sun, colorful, looks very, in fact it is just a derivative of your emotional exchange, the past has disappeared. What happens will never disappear is the hug, and the promise is bound to leave the wind. That"s right, this is the case.

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