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同事總是無緣無故跟我過不去,我很苦惱,應該怎麼辦?

問:同事總是無緣無故跟我過不去,我很苦惱,應該怎麼辦?

答:無論面對何種情況,我們都應該認識到:其一,一切都是因業力所現、因業力所感,都是唯心所現、唯識所變。都是自己往昔所造的業,現在業力現前了。其二,因為自己心不清凈,所以才有這些不好的顯現或不好的感受。

若是對因果、對輪迴沒有甚深的了解、體悟,想做到知錯是相當難的。若是真正明白了這些道理,很多問題也就迎刃而解了。我們在遭遇一些不幸時,通常只考慮自己,不考慮他人,都是去怨恨他人。這還是凡夫的想法。

若你是個學佛修行人,出現這些問題時,不應該到外面找原因,不應該怨恨別人,而應該對照自己,在自己身上找原因。從輪迴、因果的角度講,這些都是自己造的業,現在是業力現前。想解決問題,就要猛厲地懺悔自己造下的貪心、嗔恨心、妄語等惡業,把這些業懺悔掉,果自然就結束,就不會再有人傷害你了。

你現在有這麼多不順心、不如意的事,不是環境的問題,也不是周圍人的問題。心凈一切凈,現在有不清凈的境相,有不清凈的感受,都是因為自己的心不清凈,問題出在自己身上。若是真正明白了這個道理,這叫知錯。真正的知錯是一種覺悟,一種智慧,有了這樣的智慧和覺悟,就不會有煩惱和痛苦了。

Question: My colleague always has difficulties with me for no reason, I』m very annoyed, what should I do?

Guru answers: Whatever situation we are facing, we need to know: first, all are present by karma and the responses to karma. There is nothing but the manifestation of mind, nothing but the transformation of consciousness. All are the shows of karma we committed before, and now the karmic obscuration matures. Second, owing to our impure mind, there are unpleasant manifestations and feelings.

If we don』t deeply understand and comprehend the causes and effects as well as samsara, it』s very hard to know our faults. If we really understand these truths, lots of problems are easily to be solved. Normally we only think about ourselves but not about others and even resent others when we suffer some misfortune. This is the thoughts of ordinary people.

If you are a practitioner, you should not look for reasons from outside or resent others, what you should do is to reflect upon yourself and search problems from yourself. From the view of causes and effects as well as samsara, these are all owing to the bad karmas you created and now the manifestations of your own karma. If you really want to solve the problem, you need to repent the karma of being greedy, hatred and lying,etc. All of these karmas are cleared through confession, the effect will stop and nobody will harm you anymore.

There are a lot of things make you unhappy now, the cause is not your surroundings or the people around you. All will be pure once your mind is pure. The impure manifestations and feelings are owing to the impure mind you have, the source of the problem is with yourself. Really understanding this truth is called knowing the fault. Really knowing of fault is a kind of enlightenment and wisdom, with which you will have no annoyance or misery.

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