深度自信的人的7個好習慣

7 Habits of Highly Confident People

深度自信的人7個習慣

Confidence is crucial to a happy and fulfilling life. It influences your success in leadership, how you engage with your team, and at work in general. It influences how you build your business, how you are in your family life, relationships and leisure activities. The list goes on. Confidence affects your performance and who you are in all you do.

自信對於一個快樂和令人滿意的生活是至關重要的。一般在工作中，自信會影響到你的領導力，影響到你怎麼與團隊相處。它也會關係到你的事業，你的家庭生活，你的人際關係和你的業餘活動。自信會在你的表現和你所有做的事情中起作用。

If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavours to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.——Henry David Thoreau

梭羅說過，一個人如果果自信的朝前追夢，並且竭盡全力過他想要的生活，他就會與成功不期而遇。

#1 主動承擔個人責任（Accepting personal responsibility）-----

Habit 1 is accepting personal responsibility. Confident people accept responsibility for their lives, their decisions, and their behaviours.Confident people understand that they may not always have control over what happens in their lives but they do have control over their responses. They take responsibility for how they respond to life.

自信的人會為他們的生活、他們的每一個決定和行為負責。自信的人知道他們不能完全控制他們生活發生的事情，但是他們完全控制在事情發生的時候自己的反應，他們會為此負責。

#2 敢於行動，即使會害怕（Act in spite of their fears）-----

Confident people act in spite of their fears. That』s what courage is. We all have fears – fear of failure, fear of not measuring up, fear of appearing stupid. It』s part of the human condition. We all like to succeed, don』t we? I know I do. And yet, it is the fear of failure that keeps many people from living fully, from claiming their personal power.Confident people are willing to step out of their comfort zone and give their best shot to something new, in spite of their anxieties or fears.

自信的人敢於行動，儘管會害怕。這就是他們的勇氣所在。每個人都會害怕，害怕失敗，害怕不合格，害怕顯得很蠢。這是人天性的一部分。人人都喜歡成功，不是嗎？還有，也正是因為害怕失敗讓很多人不能活得很充實，不能發揮自己的能力。自信的人願意走出「舒適區」，盡最大的努力去嘗試一些新東西，儘管心存焦慮或者恐懼。

#3 忍讓別人（Tolerance for others）-----

Tolerance for others is the 3rd habit of confident people. We all lose our patience with friends, families, and even strangers at one time or another.But the confident person values others and instead of being put off by their errors confident people are willing to lend support, give constructive feedback, or sometimes just give another person a hand up.

我們偶爾會對朋友、家人甚至陌生人失去耐心。但是自信的人會重視別人，不會因為別人的錯誤搪塞過去的，反而他們願意提供支持，給出建設性的反饋，有時還會支持給別人。

#4 立即承認和讚賞別人（quick to give praise and recognition to others）-----

The 4th habit of confident people is that they are quick to give praise and recognition to others. Confident people don』t take all the credit. They willingly share the credit. Confident people recognise that rarely does

something positive happen based solely on one person』s efforts. They appreciate those that are often behind the scenes.

自信的人不會把一切都功勞都算在自己頭上。他們願意與別人分享,極少承認一些事情是一個人的功勞。他們欣賞那些經常處於幕後的人。

#5 為成功和獲得認可感到自豪（Be proud of a job well done and accepting of recognition）-----

Habit number 5 may sound a little contradictory on the heels of habit 4 Confident people are proud of a job well done and accepting of recognition. This does not mean that confident people are boastful – in fact, boasting isa sure sign of lack of confidence. No, what this means is that confident people accept recognition and praise for a job well done, an effort well made, and a success well earned. They do with a heartfelt and engaging, 「Thank you.」

自信的人為自己的成功和獲得認可感到自豪。這個並不意味著自信的人愛炫耀——事實是，愛炫耀正是缺乏自信心的表現。自信的人非常確定他們獲得任何和表揚，恰恰是因為他們工作幹得好，他們付出了努力，他們獲得了應得的成功。他們是發自內心是真心實意在說一聲：「謝謝」。

#6 有明確的目標（Have goals）-----

The 6th habit of confident people is that they have goals. Confident people realise that life is a work in progress and that opportunities abound for success and self-fulfilment. Confident people are not afraid to set goals, make plans and then take steps to reach their goals. They also understand there will be some challenges and setbacks, and adjustments will have to be made. They are constantly re-evaluating and adjusting to get to where they want to go.

自信的人明白生活就像一項進行的工作，成功和自我實現的機會無處不在。他們敢於設定自己的目標，制定自己計劃，然後一步步去實現這個目標。他們知道會遇到挑戰和障礙，必須做一些調整。所以他們一直評估自己，調整自己以達到自己的目標。

#7 敢於亮出自己的立場（are not afraid to stand for something）-----

The 7th confidence habit is this. Confident people are not afraid to stand for something. They understand that values are tested at every turn of life, but confident people place their beliefs above their need to be liked by everyone. Of course, it』s nice to be liked by everyone, but the reality is that staying true to our beliefs and values is not always the popular decision. Confident people are generally willing to compromise, but not their values. And that is one of the main reasons that we respect people with confidence.

自信的人知道在人生每一次轉折點的時候都會受到考驗，但是相比左右逢源他們更看重價值觀。當然，被每個人喜歡是一件很爽的事情，但是實際上堅持自己的信念和價值觀往往不總是受歡迎。自信的人願意妥協，但不是妥協他們的價值觀。這也正是我們尊重有自信心的人的主要原因。

Are you being held back because of lack of confidence?

你是否因為缺乏自信而停滯不前呢？

Make 2018 the year you express who you truly are and pursue your heart"s desire without restriction set by others or yourself.

在2018年，開始做自己吧，追求自己內心的渴望，不被別人左右也不被自己束縛。

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