女生主動求婚，是一種什麼樣的體驗？老外分享了他們的親身經歷....

天下 10-27

文：「滬江英語」（hjenglish）

說起求婚，腦袋中浮現的畫面都是這樣的——

男生單膝跪下，手中舉著鑽戒，深情而又專註的問你：「Will you marry me?」

但看過《老友記》

（Friends）

的童鞋都一定知道，求婚並不一定都是男生主動。

第六季結尾，當 Monica 跪下深情地向 Chandler 求婚時候，真的看哭一片真愛粉。

現場真的超級感動↓↓

國外 Reddit 就有一個非常有趣的帖子——

Men who have been proposed to by their girlfriends, how did you feel about it?

被女友求婚的男生會有什麼樣的體驗？

主頁菌選取了7個特別有意思的回答，一起來看看~

Makasaurus（4.4k個贊）

So I was the girlfriend... he glowed for days afterward. Looked up the statistics and glowed some more. He didn"t care that it"s typically the guy"s job to do the asking, he was too busy being overwhelmed by the fact that I love him enough to ask.

所以我是那個求婚的女友……我男朋友在那之後容光煥發了好幾天。看了看被女友求婚的相關數據又更加嘚瑟了。

他完全不在意求婚應該是由男生來做的事情

，他已經沉浸在我愛他已經愛到了主動求婚的事實里了。

感情是雙向的。你的男朋友內心說不定也是個渴望寵愛的小公舉呢~

falcon-punch-to-face（15k個贊）

Not me, but my mom proposed to my dad because she got tired of waiting for him after they』d been going out for almost 10 years. He was casual about it and was like, 「Sure I』ll marry you. 「

不是我本人，但是我媽媽向我爸爸求的婚，因為他們交往了快十年，我媽已經不想再接著等待了。我爸的反應很淡定：「好啊，我娶你啊。」

My dad was always shy and my mother more direct. They』d known each other since they were 15 so they』d been together for so long they kinda forgot about marriage.

我爸是個害羞的人，我媽是主動的那方。他們從15歲就認識了，在一起太久了都忘記了結婚這件事情。

青梅竹馬的戀愛太可愛了，在一起太久，居然可以這麼淡定地對待婚姻。估計每天的日常，也是各種撒糖....

Hairy_Al（31.3k 個贊）

My gf walked up behind me while I was cooking, hugged me, and said "What would you say if I asked you to marry me?" I said "I"d probably say yes"

我女朋友在我做飯的時候從後面向我走近，從背後把我抱住然後說：「如果我現在讓你和我結婚，你會說什麼？」我說：「我大概會說好的」

We"ve been married 22 years and I』m still waiting for her to actually propose...

我們現在已經結婚22年了，我還在等她好好向我求婚…

現在的國外小姐姐都這麼帥的嘛~

背後抱住什麼的，不是霸道總裁的必殺絕技嘛，太蘇了！

babypolarbear（10k個贊）

Didn"t once occur to me what the conventional norm was supposed to be. Didn"t feel emasculated or anything. Just felt so loved.

我從來沒有覺得有什麼必須由男生來求婚的規定。沒有覺得讓我的男子漢氣概受損。只是單純的感受了被愛的感覺。

Actually, I did at one point think, "f**k, getting proposed to is the best feelings in the world, f*** me, I can"t do this for her now. F*****k, how do I make her feel as loved as she is making me feel in this moment. F***K. This love shit is so hard."

其實有一瞬間我有想過：「我去，被求婚的感覺真的太爽了，現在我沒有辦法讓她也感受到一樣的幸福了。我的天我該怎麼讓她感受到和我現在一樣的被愛著，這也太難了吧。」

Unfortunately, she passed away 5-months after that, and I never did get to wait for her at the end of the aisle.

可惜，她五個月之後去世了，我沒有等到看到她穿著婚紗在教堂走向我的美麗模樣。