聰明人會把嘴藏在心裡，愚蠢人卻心擺在嘴裡
一、人活一生，不是為了活在別人的價值觀里。而是按照自己的想法，去過盡興而豐盛的一生。
You are not living in other people"s values. It is to live a happy and prosperous life according to your own ideas.
二、你對我的討厭，是我不以為然的理所當然，我對你的喜歡，是你理所當然的不以為然。
you hate me, I do not take it for granted, I like you, you take it for granted.
三、你要做一個不動聲色的大人了。不準情緒化，不準偷偷想念，不準回頭看。去過自己另外的生活。你要聽話，不是所有的魚都會生活在同一片海里。
You"re going to be a quiet adult. Do not be emotional, do not secretly miss, do not look back. Live a different life for yourself. Be obedient, not all fish will live in the same ocean.
四、聰明人會把嘴藏在心裡，愚蠢人卻心擺在嘴裡。
smart people hide their mouths in their hearts, but fools put their hearts in their mouths.
五、後來愛的每個人都有你的影子，不是我忘不掉你，是我從來都沒有一刻想要真的放棄你。
later love everyone has your shadow, not that I can not forget you, is that I never want to really give up you for a moment.
六、你的好對別人來說就像一顆糖，吃了就沒了。你的壞對別人來說就像一個疤痕，留下了就永久在，這就是人性。
Your goodness is like a candy to others. You can"t eat it. Your bad is like a scar to others. It"s human nature that remains forever.
七、煩惱天天有，不揀自然無。沉浮人生，心路歷程，讓來的來，讓去的去，心平氣和的迎來送往，來來往往，一場過往。禪門有語：不忘人恩，不計人怨，不思人非，不念人過。世上本無事，庸人自擾之。心頭無閑事，便是自在人。
troubles are everyday, but it"s natural to not pick them out. The ups and downs of life, the journey of mind, let-in, let-in, let-go, peaceful welcome to and from, come and go, a past. There is a saying in Zen: Don"t forget people"s gratitude, don"t care about people"s complaints, don"t think about people"s mistakes, don"t miss people"s lives. Nothing in the world should have been bothered by mediocrity. If you have no leisure in mind, you are free.
八、最後我們都會明白一個道理：愛情終究是兩個人的事情。
finally we will all understand a truth: love is ultimately the matter of two people.
九、無論是對事還是對人，我們只需要做好自己的本分，不與過多人建立親密的關係，也不要因為關係親密便掏心掏肺，切莫交淺言深，應適合而止。
right or right for people, we just need to do our part well, not to establish intimate relationship with too many people, and not because of intimate relationship, do not talk deeply, should be suitable to stop.
十、為了你我疏遠了所有人，到最後你走了，他們也沒有了。
alienated everyone for you, and in the end you left, they had gone.
十一、沒用的東西，再便宜也不要買；不愛的人，再寂寞也不要依賴。
useless things, no matter how cheap, do not buy; do not loved people, no longer lonely and do not rely on.
十二、你要學著無論遇到什麼事情，欣喜，悲傷或是瀕臨崩潰，都能夠不動聲色自己處理事情，自己辨別對錯，好好成長。晚安！
you have to learn that no matter what happens, joy, sadness or near collapse, you can handle things quietly, distinguish right from wrong, and grow up well. Good night!
十三、人犯錯誤，多半是在該用真情時太過動腦筋，而在該用腦筋時又太感情用事。
people make mistakes mostly because they use their mind too much when they should use their true feelings, and they use their mind too emotionally when they should.
十四、我自知駕馭不了雨天的這份詩意，所以就不會選擇像戴望舒那樣，徘徊在悠長又寂寥的雨巷。也不奢求逢著一個丁香一樣地結著愁怨的姑娘。只求一份安逸，窩在沙發里，讀一本安靜的書，伴著一杯香濃的咖啡，品一縷墨香。
I know I can not control the poetry of rainy days, so I will not choose to wander in the long and lonely rainy Lane like Dai Wangshu. I don"t want to meet a girl who is sad like a lilac. Just for a comfort, nest in the sofa, read a quiet book, accompanied by a cup of coffee, taste a ray of ink.
十五、我是要有多勇敢，才敢一直對你念念不忘。我是要有多堅強，才能承受你的一傷再傷。
I have to be brave to remember you all the time. How strong should I be before I can bear your repeated injuries?
十六、漫步在人生路上，關於未來，每一步都如履薄冰小心翼翼，不求大獲全勝只求全身而退。
walks along the road of life. Every step about the future is as careful as walking on thin ice. It does not want to win a great deal but to retreat from the whole body.
十七、 有些事，不是不在意，而是在意了又能怎樣。人生沒有如果，只有後果和結果。成熟，就是用微笑來面對一切小事。
Some things, not care about, but care about what can be. Life has no if, only consequences and results. Maturity is to face all trifles with a smile.
十八、餘生不用你指教了，願你過得好，也請別讓我知道！
does not need your advice for the rest of its life. Wish you a good life, and please don"t let me know!
十九、別人總說過好今天才是最重要的，可我覺得很可笑，最重要的日子是昨天，因為那個日子裡，我有你……
people always say that today is the most important, but I find it ridiculous that the most important day is yesterday, because that day, I have you... After
二十、分手後，我還認識你，不過不想再見你，你過得好，我不會祝福你，你過得不好，我不會嘲笑你，因為，我們從此陌生；有時候，喜歡一個人，真會把自己活得很委屈。或許太重感情的人，日子終究不會好過。信任，依賴，念舊，分分鐘把你虐的萬劫不復。
broke up, I still know you, but I don"t want to see you again. You have a good life, I won"t bless you, you have a bad life, I won"t laugh at you, because we are unfamiliar from now on. Sometimes, like a person, you will really live a wronged life. Maybe people who are too emotional will not have a good life after all. Trust, dependence, nostalgia, every minute of your abuse.
